By Asim Qureshi
www.cageprisoners.com
This Ramadhan we will be sitting down to eat with our families. Father,
husband, mother, wife and children, all together partaking in the barakah
of the month. Then they will recite the Qur’an and encourage each other to
do good for the sake of taking the most from the month in anticipation of
bettering themselves for the rest of the year, Insha Allah.
How will the detainees and their families be spending this Ramadhan? In
what state will they eat their food? To what extent will the Ummah relate
to their plight and connect these helpless hearts to the body of the
faithful.
The mothers and wives
Ismet Siddiqui currently sits under house arrest in her home in Karachi.
What is her crime? Actually nothing…The authorities are scared that she
will raise awareness about the disappearance of her daughter Aafia
Siddiqui along with her young grandchildren at the hands of the Pakistani
authorities. Ismet was threatened soon after their disappearance that her
grandchildren would permanently disappear if she spoke about the events.
Since 2003 mother and children have all been missing, and none can gain
access to Ismet.
For those mothers who have the ability to do something for their children,
their lives become the campaign to get their children home to safety. Abbi
Nawaz, mother of one of the Egypt 3, after being hit with innumerable
difficulties kept her courage, “They want to crush our spirits but they
are not going to succeed. If I have to go back there again, I will go back
there again and make sure this does not rest.” As Bisher El-Rawi rots away
in Guantanamo Bay, his mother Jahida Sayyadi was similarly writing to
highlight the cause of her son,
“I am not urging you to devise special rules to help my son out of his
torment. I am not seeking sympathy and soothing words. All what I beseech
is that go by your own books and help us implement your rules. Allow him a
fair trial. Deal with him in accordance with the rules which you take lots
of pride before the whole world on setting out and embracing. Go back to
the Geneva Conventions, to human rights declarations, and to hundreds and
hundreds of documents that have been signed and endorsed to secure the
human dignity and rights to a decent living.”
It is however in her capacity as a mother and wife that Farhat Paracha
embodies the difficulties faced by these women. Her husband, Saifullah
Paracha, has been illegally in US custody since July 2005. At the age of
60 with multiple illnesses, the US authorities decided to kidnap him on
his way to attending a business meeting in Bangkok. Their torment however
is amplified by the recent sentencing of their son, Uzair, to 30 years
imprisonment in the US on evidence that has been internationally seen as
being flimsy at best. Despite the ever increasing costs of running
campaigns for her loved ones, she manages to hold together her family and
run the family business.
With Ramadhan upon us, many wives will have to wake for Suhoor (the pre
dawn meal) without their husbands, as explained by the wife of one of the
UK detainees, “Life’s a lot harder now…we used to pray together, eat
together, wake up together…Now it’s like only half the family is waking
up. I wake up alone at sehri time…the girls are too young to fast anyway.
It’s sad…I miss the days he was waking up with me.”
The fathers and husbands
There are many fathers currently locked up all over the world; they all
remember their children and families with a longing that is the one thing
which keeps them going. For those such as Moazzam Begg, there was
particular cause for heartache, as he had never met his youngest child
until released from Guantanamo Bay. In a similar circumstance was the
released Guantanamo detainee Mamdouh Habib, who had never met his 4 year
old daughter. His wife, Maha Habib, said that on his return, the very
first thing she had in store for her husband was an introduction to their
daughter.
However they are not the only fathers who have been forced to suffer such
an injustice. Currently still sitting in the cages of Guantanamo remain
Jamil El Banna, Shaker Abdur Rahman Aamer and Omar Deghayes. All three
have yet to meet their youngest children who were born after they were
forcibly kidnapped and shipped off to Guantanamo Bay.
Here in the UK, the men that exist (for living would be a glorification of
their situation) in Belmarsh and other prisons, are cut off from the ones
they love so dearly. Daily they have to deal with the horror of knowing
that their wives and children are facing some of the harshest treatment
without any hope of help. Mustapha Labsi during his time in UK prisons had
minimal contact with his wife. He said of her situation, “My wife who is
not from this country was shocked mentally and psychologically and she
wanders in the streets without care or protection.”
For those under control orders, the husbands and fathers have the added
worry of having their entire households turned upside down beyond their
control. The family of Mahmoud Abu Rideh are faced with the prospect of
having their home and life raided by a large contingent of the police on
any random night. Already the police have raided their homes over 30 times
and they have major restrictions placed on their lives. For any
self-respecting father or husband, such infringement into their daily
lives is an insulting and degrading situation to be placed in. With
Ramadhan around the corner, the family face the prospect of having their
home raided during their Suhoor every single day.
The children
Johina Aamer, Michel Aamer, Saif Aamer, Faris Aamer, Anas El Banna,
Mohamed El Banna, Abdul Rahman El Banna, Badeeah El Banna, Mariam El
Banna, and the 2 children of Ahmed Errachidi are the children of just 3
British residents still in Guantanamo Bay. Unlike their fathers, these
children actually have British citizenship and thus the legal right to be
represented by the Foreign and Commonwealth Office when abroad and
complete rights to consular protection. Their fathers have not been
afforded this same right, for although being longstanding British
residents in the UK, they have not as yet been able to take citizenship.
Another child who has never known his father, is the son of Omar Deghayes,
who is also currently being held in Guantanamo Bay as one of the British
residents who face deportation to their countries of origin. The father of
Omar Deghayes was executed for political reasons by Colonel Qaddafi and
now Omar faces torture and political imprisonment for a crime he never
committed at the hands of the US administration. One thing is certain –
Omar’s son will grow up in a world where dictators like Qaddafi killed his
grandfather, and dictators like George W Bush took away the sight of his
father in one eye.
For many Muslim children, Ramadhan comes with the certainty of the immense
joy that comes with Eid. The children of the detainees have yet to
experience this pleasure, their Eid is spent trying to remember a man they
hardly know and in some cases do not know at all. 9 year old Anas El Banna
describes the hurt which comes with each Eid,
“Eid after Eid has come and gone and my Dad is still in chains. Two weeks
ago was the small Eid and in two months, it will be the big Eid. The best
and most wonderful Eid for me will be the Eid when my dad comes back to us
and brings back our happiness with him.”
These children have the right to grow up knowing their fathers, they have
the right to understand what fair and open trials mean, and yet they will
in all likelihood grow up knowing that these things are merely
philosophical ideals which belong to a bygone era. Meeting these children
only brings recognition that the Ummah has completely failed in its
obligations to its brothers and sisters, for the sadness in their eyes is
something that most of us will never experience.
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This Ramadhan these families will not be complete and will have to spend
the month in the saddest of circumstances. For so many families,
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to their loved ones, wherever they may be in the world.
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